Why do I keep waking up at night and how to get back to sleep?

WE’VE all been there – startled awake at 3am for seemingly no reason – but while some of us can nod back off easily, for others it’s impossible.

The daunting prospect of having to get up in a couple of hours makes the situation significantly worse.

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So why do you wake up in the night, and how can you get back to sleep?

Experts say that when we sleep, we go through several 90-minute cycles.

These cycles contain different stages of sleep. In the latter part, you go into a lighter sleep.

You are much more likely to wake up to the slightest noise, such as a car driving past, or your partner moving slightly, sleep expert Dr Neil Stanley, ex-chairman of the British Sleep Society, told Good Housekeeping.

In the morning, it is unlikely you’ll remember all the times you were roused in the night.

But for the unfortunate few, it’s not as easy as “turning over” and nodding off again.

Greg Murray, professor and director of the Centre for Mental Health, Swinburne University of Technology, explained this is typical for 3-4am.

As the body prepares for morning, core body temperature and wakeful hormones start to rise, while sleep drive is reducing, he wrote in The Conversation.

“Add a bit of stress and there is a good chance that waking will become a fully self-aware state,” Prof Murray said.

He said in the hours before dawn, we are more likely to end up “catastrophising” because it is dark and lonely – no one or nothing is there to distract you.

Here are some tips, shared by sleep experts, to help you get back into the land of nod:

1. Avoid toilet breaks

You may think that getting up to relieve your bladder will help you drift back off to the land of nod.

But Dr Michael Breus, a clinical psychologist, told Business Insider that you should stay exactly where you are.

This is because if you leave the warmth of your bed, your heart has to pump more blood around the body.

A low resting heart rate is needed to fall asleep. Therefore, a toilet trip is doing the opposite of what you need.

2. Stop clock-watching

It’s almost second nature to pick up your phone and check the time when you wake up in the middle of the night.

Dr Michael said to avoid checking your phone at all costs, as the anxiety of watching the clock can keep you awake longer.

Experts say if you still haven’t fallen asleep within what feels like 15 minutes, you should get out of bed.

“There’s no need to clock-watch though; just estimate quarter-of-an-hour,” they wrote.

Dr Bryony Sheaves and Professor Colin Espie at the University of Oxford said you can return to bed once you feel sleepy, to avoid associating it with feeling awake and axious.

3. Ditch the booze

A glass of wine or a sip or two of brandy is a pre-bed ritual for some, and can certainly help you drift off.

But it can ruin the quality of your sleep, which will cause you to have more disturbances through the night.

That’s because alcohol blocks tryptophan – an amino acid that helps you sleep – from getting to the brain.

Professor Malcolm von Schantz, from the University of Surrey, says: “Alcohol has a weird effect in that it makes it easier to fall asleep, but it makes it harder to stay asleep and it affects the quality of our sleep.”

4. Shut pets away

It can be nice to have a warm fluffy pillow to snuggle with, but you shouldn’t have your pets in the bed.

They can rob us of those vital zzzzs – not just because they fidget about, but also because of fur shedding.

On top of this, sleeping with a furry friend can also aggravate allergies or asthma in those susceptible to it.

5. Cool down

You might feel like having a warm, cosy house is one of the only comforts in the colder months – but this can actually disrupt sleep.

This is because central heating systems dry out the mucous membranes, making you more thirsty during the night.

Dr Neil says the optimum temperature for a good night is 18C or lower.

We need to lose around 1C of our internal body temperature, which sits at around 37C – to drift off.

If you’re in a room that’s too warm, your body can’t dump that excess heat – and that means that your sleep will be disturbed.

Turn the heating off in your bedroom and instead use duvets, blankets and breathable bed linen to help regulate your body temperature.

6. Quieten your mind

To help remedy this, The National Sleep Foundation recommends trying meditation.

It says: “Learning to quiet your mind can be a helpful skill, both for navigating stressful daytime periods, and for falling asleep at night.

“If you’ve never tried it, start with as little as a couple minutes of sitting quietly and focusing on your inhale and exhale.

“You can also explore apps that will help guide you.”

It also recommend taking on more exercise as regular exercisers tend to fall asleep quicker and sleep more soundly.

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