ARSENAL keeper Aaron Ramsdale has made a pledge to combat homophobia in football dressing rooms after opening up about his gay brother Oliver.
The Gunners shot-stopper, 25, is the youngest of three boys – with eldest, Edward, working as a prison guard and middle brother, Oliver, performing in the West End.
Instagram @oliverramsdaleAaron Ramsdale with brother Oliver after signing a new Arsenal contract in May[/caption]
Ramsdale has praised his brother Oliver for his bravery as a gay manInstagram @oliverramsdale
Ramsdale received a huge backlash when he made the move from Sheffield United to Arsenal in 2021 as many questioned why Mikel Arteta was signing the young Englishman.
But he has thrived during his two season at the Emirates, proving people wrong with numerous superb displays.
Yet despite the abuse he faced two years ago, Arsenal man Ramsdale insists his bravery is nothing compared with what his brother Oliver has had to face as a gay man.
Speaking in his article on the Players’ Tribune, he said: “Whenever people tell me it’s brave what I’ve done, pursuing this football dream, I just laugh. Oliver is the real superstar of the family. He’s the brave one.
“Three weeks before he was supposed to leave for uni in Bedford, he told my parents that he had a change of heart. He didn’t want to become a PE teacher. He wanted to chase his real dream and go to drama school. So he literally packed up everything and went to London to pursue a totally different life.
“But that’s not the bravest thing he’s done. That’s not why I admire him.
“My brother is gay, and he’s lived his life in an open and authentic way since he went off to school. I’m so proud to say he’s my brother. I haven’t talked about it before, but with everything going on in football right now, I thought it was important to mention.
“Oliver is a lot like me, in many ways. He’s a regular bloke. Loves football. Loves knocking about with his mates. Loves the Gunners. He’s proud of me, and I’m really proud of him.
“Over the years, I’ve probably bit my tongue a few too many times — both in dressing rooms and on social media — whenever I hear homophobic comments or stupid things being said. And I think maybe my brother has done the same, thinking it would make my life easier.
“Well, all that ends today.”
Ramsdale has a host of things he wants to achieve in football – namely to fill up his trophy cabinet.
But above all else he also desperately wants the game to be inclusive for all.
And he finished his Players’ Tribune piece by calling for the eradication of discrimination in football.
He added: “For me, I obviously dream about winning the league and parading the trophy through North London, for sure. World Cup. Champions League. I’ve got all those dreams, but those are all football dreams.
“As a person, I have another dream.
“I want this game I love to be a safe and welcoming place for everyone.
“I want my brother, Ollie — or anyone of any sexuality, race or religion — to come to games without having to fear abuse.
“And when we lift a trophy at the Emirates Stadium, I want my brother there with me.
“What could the trolls tell us then? Not a thing.
“Love you, bro.
“Aaron.”